...Coming back, telling me that she was upset to see the condition of the plot, she proposed that we do some good deed...the next day..So together we planned how to go about it...to please my mum...at the same time to do something good to my late uncle, auntie, and cousin.
This is the -'before' plot - without stones and pebbles..
My late uncle ; my father's youngest brother.
We went to the cemetery at about 10.30 am, nobody was there, except us (Me and Uda was driving , carrying in my car 40 interlocking pebbles plus 2 bags of stones..)The other car was Along, my mum, their 'cik de' ,my nephews:Muaz and Mueez..
They were arranging the pebbles and the stones...and finally it was done~ not too elaborate but at least there was a better mark for the plot !
...And little Mueez was asking: kenapa kita mesti siram air ?
...And little Mueez was asking: kenapa kita mesti siram air ?The answer is:....................
Al Fatehah...to my Ayah Cik!
Next, my sis was searching for my ayah cik's daughter..Asilah...(and she was our late cousin )..Passed away at a young age- around 26 yrs old..not married..and it was in 2006- a year after my ayah cik's death.
Finally could locate the spot...then Along started to get another plot done ..together with Uda, Muaz and Mueez...
Finally it was done....the second plot ! Al Fatehah..
Next we searched for my Acik- ayah cik's wife~ passed away in 2007..My loving auntie..There were TOO many sweet memories with her that I could even cry~ thinking and missing her !!
Al Fatehah...to my Ayah Cik!
Next, my sis was searching for my ayah cik's daughter..Asilah...(and she was our late cousin )..Passed away at a young age- around 26 yrs old..not married..and it was in 2006- a year after my ayah cik's death.
Finally could locate the spot...then Along started to get another plot done ..together with Uda, Muaz and Mueez...
Finally it was done....the second plot ! Al Fatehah..
Next we searched for my Acik- ayah cik's wife~ passed away in 2007..My loving auntie..There were TOO many sweet memories with her that I could even cry~ thinking and missing her !!..Since we did not prepare for another plot, we just recite Al Fatehah and may be will come again later for her....Infact...we have yet to find another auntie's plot !!..their Tok Wan !
***Sigh ** Alhamdulillah...My mum was so happy with what we have contributed that day...It may look simple...but that was one of the small deed and contribution which actually was reflecting our endless loves for them...Apart from sedekah Al Fatehah...what else we can contribute to arwah? ....
***Sigh ** Alhamdulillah...My mum was so happy with what we have contributed that day...It may look simple...but that was one of the small deed and contribution which actually was reflecting our endless loves for them...Apart from sedekah Al Fatehah...what else we can contribute to arwah? ....Missing the three of them tremendously....Terkenang masa2 bersama mereka....(tears rolling..)
All job done by 1145 am...
..That left me thinking and wondering......If my time comes~ will my children be too busy to even visit my 'small,lonely' plot ?...Sedihnya !
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